Monday, December 1, 2014

Helping brings happiness



Helping brings happiness


After a long time research and survey done by me on cause and effect of happiness I got to know that the main and best method of getting original happiness is helping and getting helped in special needy time.
For example : i feel happy the most happy when I help other and when I see a sweet and innocent smile on their face when they got rid of their problem because of me. And that is the best moment for me. I feel good to do that. And when I get helped by other when I need help……….. that time I feel so much happy. And so I think that the helping environment must be encouraged to develop humanity and happiness in person by inner portion of heart.








And after a long term research I got to know that the people are not getting the main and best way to get happiness and hence get themselves in sorrow many times. So I thought I must provide them the best way of getting happy and way is helping other. Because when you help others u yourself get happy but on the same time the helped person will also be happy.

When we get in problem and no one is there to help us , then we feel so sad and stress get increased automatically and because of this stress, a feeling get born in our mind that to not to help others also, because there was no one to help us in needy time. And the problem in our society is that every person are thinking the same thing and refusing to help other form heart. And so what the persons in this present days are not happy in real sense. They are just pretending to be happy in-front of others , but in reality neither they are happy nor the person who is observing them.


So I think that the person and humans in this present world must first change their negativity (or say pessimistic view) thinking and behavior and develop or grow the optimistic view or positivity in their thinking way. Only then the thinking of helping other, humanity may return to the person, and hence gain the happiness in their life.



People always believe in Newton’s third law “For every action there is an equal and opposite re-action” I mean to say that we always use to expect something when we do something. We always think when I will do this to him he must do that for me and if this don’t happen then again the same sort of thinking occur in our mind we get angry of him and not only with him but with helping habit also so I suggest everyone that if you are helping any other then don’t think what you will get anything from this activity. If you are able to do so then only you will achieve the original happiness and along with this the happiness of the helped one also. And according to this newtons third law we can get a lesson that if you will do good then its obvious that one day you will gain good. And that is fact. And if you do any wrong to any one then its true that you are also going to get wrong. So do good get good. For example : one day if you help any of your friend and you didn’t get any response at the same time but after some time if you will be in problem then its sure that person will help you or god will send someone to help you at the moment. So help others be happy be lucky.

I m again saying that help others you will get the instant happiness and the happiness will be the true one not any fake to show others. And think positive to get first step in this world of happiness and humanity. If you get success to help others without any selfishness or any expectation then you are successful in your life. Your success come to meet you. And you will be enlisted in a list of happy people. So try to help others give birth to the humanity in your soul be human be social and be happy.








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